In this season of gratitude and celebration we want to add stories about community and sharing. Spreading the riches and the joy seems like a logical follow-up to gratitude and celebration.
The Snow Party by Beatrice Schenk de Regniers, illustrated by Reiner Zimnik, was published in 1959 and still delights. Who doesn’t wish for a party on a snowy winter day? The book begins, “There was this little old woman and this little old man and they lived in a little old farmhouse ‘way out in Dakota.” Anyone familiar with the upper Midwest plains and prairie can imagine how isolated they might be.
When a snowstorm begins, the little old woman says, “I’m mighty lonely here with just you and the chickens for company. I’d like to give me a party and have plenty of folks in.” The old man points out that they don’t know anyone, that no one would come out in a snowstorm anyway, and that “wishes won’t wash dishes or stop the wind and snow.”
Suddenly a stranded driver knocks at the door and asks for shelter for his carload of passengers. When another carload of stranded people knocks on the door they are welcomed in, followed by three more carloads and a bus full of people. Soon even the snowplow is stuck. Eventually the running total of occupants in the house reaches 84 grownups, 17 children, 7 babies, 6 dogs, a cat, a parakeet, a canary bird, and a little pet skunk.
“It’s a shame,” says the old woman. “All these people and no party. If only there were a crust or a crumb or bread in the house or a bit of music.” Just then a stranded bakery truck driver knocks, and when he sees all the hungry-looking people, he empties his truck in a hunger-inducing parade of goodies:
Crunchy crusty rolls … soft fluffy rolls … poppyseed rolls, sesame seed rolls, little rolls braided like ribbons, smooth round rolls shaped like a baby’s bottom … cinnamon buns … lemon meringue pies, cherry pies, apple pies, coconut custard pies, chocolate cream pies, cupcakes – chocolate, vanilla – with pink icing, white icing, rich chocolate icing…[and a] special-order chocolate fudge party cake.
Everyone eats and eats and then dances to an accordion player’s music until the snow stops and more snowplows come to clear the road. Everyone leaves, saying it’s the best party they’ve ever been to, and the little old lady “lays her head on the table next to a coconut custard pie and falls fast asleep and dreams about the party all over again.”
There’s so much fun in the old lady’s yearning for a party, the over the top accumulation of snow-stranded people, and the way that snow-bound folks manage a party after all. Wishes may not wash dishes, but sometimes even in the face of a blizzard, the universe provides.
The Doorbell Rang written and illustrated by Pat Hutchins, is a wonderfully repeating structure that also features a growing accumulation of people at the door. When Ma bakes a dozen cookies, Victoria and Sam remark that they look and smell as good as the ones Grandma makes. Ma replies, “No one makes cookies as good as Grandma’s.” Before Victoria and Sam can eat their six cookies each, the doorbell rings and Tom and Hannah join them. They, too, comment on how the cookies look and smell as good as the ones Sam and Victoria’s grandma makes. “No one makes cookies as good as Grandma,” Ma says again. Now there are three cookies per child, but before they all can dig in, Peter and his little brother join them, making the cookie division two cookies each, and again they comment on Grandma’s cookies. The doorbell rings, and Joy and Simon with their four cousins join the children with the usual comments about Grandma’s cookies. From six cookies each, Victoria and Sam’s share has dwindled to one cookie each.
When the doorbell rings again, Ma suggests the children eat the cookies before she opens the door, but the children decide to wait even though it might mean more children to share the cookies with. Ma opens the door to…Grandma arriving with an enormous tray of cookies, cookies that no one makes as good as she does. Now there are plenty of cookies for everybody. “How nice to have friends to share them with,” says Grandma. And the doorbell rings again.
The repetition, the math that shrinks each child’s share as more children come in, and the unexpected solution of Grandma with cookies that no one makes like she does all add up to a deliciously satisfying story, illustrated with cheerful bold colors.
You might call the solutions in The Snow Party and The Doorbell Rang “goodies ex machina,” an unexpected event that resolves a problem, but it might be more accurate to say that sometimes, in unexpected ways, friends, strangers, and circumstance all combine to provide plenty for all.
Around the Table That Grandad Built, written by Melanie Heuiser Hill and illustrated by Jaime Kim, is a celebration of family and one wonderful meal, shared with at least one Grandma and cousins. It all starts with the table that Grandad built. His table is soon adorned with sunflowers “picked by my cousins,” napkins “sewn by Mom.” Almost everything on the table has a family story. The forks, spoons, and knives are gifts from the Dad’s Grandma. The glasses are from Mom and Dad’s wedding. The yummy bread has been just baked by Grandma. The squash, potatoes, peppers, and beans were grown in the family garden. By the time they sit down to say thanks for the bounty on that table and eat their meal, we feel we know this family and their many connections. Even if we don’t have a Granddad that built a table or sunflowers growing in the yard, this story reminds us to look at what we have, remember its story, and be grateful.
Because Amelia Smiled, written and illustrated by David Ezra Stein, is a rollicking story of unwitting connection. We often do not know the effects of our actions. The characters in this story do not recognize that their actions create community, but we do. We see more than they do. Amelia does not know that her smile leads Mrs. Higgins to feel so happy she bakes cookies to send to her grandson Lionel in Mexico. Lionel eats one of the cookies and shares the rest with his class and decides to teach his class an English song about cookies. Because of the song Sensacia Golpes, one of his students, decides to be a teacher. Her kickboxing lesson is seen by a ballet student in England. The kickboxing moves are incorporated into Zesta Crump’s dance club’s goodwill recital in Israel. The goodwill travels on to Paris, Positano, Italy, back to New York, where it causes Pigeon Man Jones to release his pigeons. “Amelia saw them and she smiled.” This story is so much fun. We love traveling the globe with the smiles, the dancing, and the throwing of a rose. We love the cascading effect of one smile. More smiles. More dancing. More goodwill recitals.
We have to include the seasonal classic, Mr. Willowby’s Christmas Tree, written and illustrated by Robert Barry, in this line-up. Mr. Willowby’s tree is unintentionally shared because it is too big to fit in his house. He cuts off the top. His upstairs maid finds the top just right — almost. She has to trim it a bit to fit her space. No worries about waste. Timm the Gardener takes it home to Mrs. Timm. “Our house is so snug and small/I do not believe we need it all,” says Mrs. Timm. Barnaby Bear finds that trimming, to the delight of his family. But it’s just a bit too tall. Frisky Fox leaps home with his gift and Mrs. Fox calls it “better than mincemeat pie,” but it is a little too tall and she has to trim. That is good news for Benjamin Rabbit who takes home the little tree. “Then there was a merry-making/Rollicking, frolicking, carrot-shaking/Celebration around the tree.” They, too, have to trim, which is just right as that little piece of tree is found by Mistletoe Mouse who takes it home to his family, where nothing needs to be lopped off. On the last page we see the mice family with their tree and Mr. Willowby with his tree. So satisfying. And we know that Mr. Willowby’s Christmas tree brought happiness to the whole neighborhood — and carrot-shaking celebration! Let us hope for us all that we can bring cause for carrot-shaking celebration to our neighborhoods this season.
And hoorah for cookies and trees and food and smiles enough for us all.

